Every subdivision has one. The self-appointed Independence Day compliance officer, arriving in the group chat or the neighborhood app each year around July 1st with a numbered list of expectations nobody asked for. This yearâs edition covered the full waterfront: fireworks, children, barbecue smoke, guest parking, noise, and, in a genuine first for the genre, flag placement.
The rules, condensed: no fireworks past 6:00 PM (âI will call the copsâ). Kids should not be outside after dark. No barbecuing, because the smell irritates the poster âand my babies (dogs).â No hosting parties or get-togethers, on account of the cars. No noise past 6:00 PM, because âbeing patriotic doesnât have to be loud.â And, closing out the list, a request to not put the American flag âeverywhere,â since it offends some of the neighbors.
The post ended with a thank-you for celebrating âwith respect,â a reminder that the police would be called if necessary, and the clarification, offered without being asked, that the poster is ânot afraid.â
Ninety-three people liked it. Two hundred twenty-one felt compelled to comment. Thirteen shared it, presumably with their own group chats, presumably not as an endorsement.
A few things stand out. The curfew for fireworks and the curfew for general noise are both set at 6:00 PM, which is, depending on the year and the neighborhoodâs latitude, roughly the hour the sun is doing its most enthusiastic work of the day. The dog clause manages to relocate the entire justification for a no-barbecue rule onto two animals who were not consulted and cannot read. And the flag note sits at the bottom of the list like a difficult confession, tucked between the noise rule and the sign-off, as if the author knew it was the one that would generate the most replies and buried it accordingly.
It worked. Two hundred and twenty-one comments is not a number you get from asking people to keep the smoker off on a Saturday.
No name is being repeated here, no address, no neighborhood identified beyond âsomewhere with a group chat and a Fourth of July.â The rules, as posted, stand un-rescinded. The dogs, presumably, remain unbothered by whatever gets grilled on the other side of the fence.